Listen: whatever you consider 69 as a sex setting, I guarantee you have an opinion. And also if you’re like 99% of my program listeners, your opinion is either:
This is the literal BEST!
I hate this.
If you come under the latter camp, please recognize that I do recognize. Also the sexiest 69 sesh can feel like a juggling act: “should I focus on just how it’s really feeling now? Oooh that’s nice. Oh wait I have to keep doing my part– okay great, wish they suched as that– anyway back to sensation …”.
In other words: it’s a lot.
The traditional 69 setting includes one person laying down on their back, with the other individual on the top, encountering them– except, the heads and also feet are reversed, so you both have oral access to every other’s genital areas. Like I said, hot– but a whole lot.
You can make 69 even more sensual though, and much less multi-tasky, with a couple of helpful tweaks. Behold: six creative ways to up-level your 69, from toys to settings, duty changes to finger action.
1. Use your hands.
I have actually discussed the “useful dandy” on the podcast before, however the gist is this: while someone is performing foreplay, the various other person is performing a handjob. This came from an actual discovery I made with a companion of mine, where we realized that he could go down on me, while I pleasured him with the rhythmic activity of my grip. We both orgasmed, we both loved it, as well as the very best component– no lockjaw. Win win! Try it out and see if it’s practical.
2. Change top and bottom.
One more very easy tweak is to reverse who’s relaxing as well as who rises. If you’re used to lying down, you might discover that getting on top provides your companion extra accessibility to particular erotic zones (like the perineum, for instance), while if you’re typically the top, relaxing could feel luxurious and also relaxing.
3. Take turns.
There’s no set policy that your lips and tongues have to touch with each other’s genitals in any way times. So the 2nd 69 begins to feel awkward or exhausting, take a break from offering, and also concentrate on all the pleasant experiences you’re getting. With your mouth complimentary, it’s a superb time to integrate some dirty talk, or some positive comments: never ever, ever before question the power of an easy “that feels so great.”.
4. Use a toy.
Another means to make 69 feel très bien is to work in some toy action, which– like the convenient dandy in idea # 1– takes the pressure off your mouth. But likewise, IMO, it’s very hot to have your companion usage playthings on you, as well as vice-versa. A vibrator like the Dame Pom is perfect for this situation, considered that it’s pliable and also can be adjusted to put pressure on different locations of a clitoris or penis– as well as with a more comprehensive body and also a slightly tapered head, the Pom provides you options for both company and also soft contact.
5. Make it penetrative.
Mentioning toys, why not experiment below with various forms of infiltration? Great Vibrations has a variety of G-Spot stimulators, if obtaining dental on your clitors and also interior excitement to your G-Spot appears great. However do not undervalue the power of fingers, also: you can definitely spice up 69 with electronic anal play (especially if your partner is on top), and/or, by inserting fingers right into the vulva.
6. Try sideways 69.
Lastly, you can make this quasi-athletic setting a little more chill, with both of you resting on your sides, mouths dealing with genital areas. From here, you can utilize liberties to order each other’s hips (or butt), which not only makes whatever easier to get to, it’s much less benefit the companion that’s typically ahead.
Et voila! Your close experience with 69 just got a little bit more creative. Test-drive a couple of these tips throughout your following oral sex session, and also see if it does not become your brand-new favorite placement.